Are you gay?

Jane Poirot · Post by **Jane Poirot** » Sun Apr 11, 2010 6:29 pm

Better than posting up ads about how to lose weight without dieting on a page about miscarriage, though.

I don't think I'm going to come out as bi right away. I might drop little hints every now and then, but it's not a huge deal to me. I'm comfortable in my skin, and that's all that matters. If people don't like it, that's their problem.

Adam106 · Post by **Adam106** » Mon Apr 12, 2010 1:33 pm

Looks like I'm one of the few left in the closet around here.

I keep trying to avoid it. It isn't the right time at the moment because there are other family issues going on.

Anyway, I'm really happy for you, PeachFreak and Nightshade.

fendue · Post by **fendue** » Mon Apr 12, 2010 5:20 pm

Sigh... I really don't want to say this, but I think I might be bi... I kind of feel guilty about it in a way. I'm not quite sure about it though. But I have absolutely positively no intention on coming out ever. EVER.

Niteshade007 · Post by **Niteshade007** » Mon Apr 12, 2010 5:26 pm

Cut to a few months later...

cacums · Post by **cacums** » Mon Apr 12, 2010 5:43 pm

Adam106 wrote:Looks like I'm one of the few left in the closet around here.

Only my family and one trusted friend (and you guys) know about me. I'm not ready for everyone to find out yet.

btw, should Clue be added to gay people stereotypes? lol

CluedoKid · Post by **CluedoKid** » Mon Apr 12, 2010 6:46 pm

cacums wrote:
Adam106 wrote:Looks like I'm one of the few left in the closet around here.
btw, should Clue be added to gay people stereotypes? lol

Nope. Not at all.

fendue · Post by **fendue** » Tue Apr 13, 2010 4:22 pm

I don't see the point in letting anybody know. Why? What are the pros? the cons almost certainly outnumber the pros for coming out, right?

CluedoKid · Post by **CluedoKid** » Tue Apr 13, 2010 5:55 pm

fendue wrote:I don't see the point in letting anybody know. Why? What are the pros? the cons almost certainly outnumber the pros for coming out, right?

I don't think so. Being comfortable with your true self is a sign of self-respect and confidence, regardless of any ridiculous backlash you may receive. Otherwise, your afraid, and being afraid will hold you back from taking risks in life.

Also getting people in a tizzy is kind of fun too.

Post by **Michael** » Tue Apr 13, 2010 6:39 pm

I don't know. I think it depends on what your goals in life and the best way to go about reaching those goals.

CluedoKid · Post by **CluedoKid** » Tue Apr 13, 2010 7:41 pm

Michael wrote:I don't know. I think it depends on what your goals in life and the best way to go about reaching those goals.

I don't think one's sexuality is something that requires announcing. My point was that one should be comfortable with the truth about themselves that they won't cause self-anguish by lying about it.

I just wanted to clarify that because I reread what fendue wrote and realized he was talking about the need about letting people know, which I misunderstood the first time I read his post.

alwaysPeacock · Post by **alwaysPeacock** » Sat Apr 17, 2010 2:04 am

I am so glad someone else noticed the connection between CLUE and gay people, too! I, too, wonder what it is about this simple little detective game that has the same magnetic pull as a new Liza Minnelli album...or Patti LuPone/Barbra Streisand/Bette Midler/[your favorite diva]...

ColJaime · Post by **ColJaime** » Mon Apr 19, 2010 3:47 pm

alwaysPeacock wrote:I am so glad someone else noticed the connection between CLUE and gay people, too! I, too, wonder what it is about this simple little detective game that has the same magnetic pull as a new Liza Minnelli album...or Patti LuPone/Barbra Streisand/Bette Midler/[your favorite diva]...

Trust me, people have been pondering the Gay/Cluedo connection for YEAAAARS, now.

cacums · Post by **cacums** » Mon Apr 19, 2010 4:27 pm

I met an amazing guy and we have so much in common! He is so cute! I'm in love with him! The only thing that made me mad was when I woke up this morning!!

Damn those dreams!!

CluedoKid · Post by **CluedoKid** » Mon Apr 19, 2010 6:19 pm

cacums wrote:I met an amazing guy and we have so much in common! He is so cute! I'm in love with him! The only thing that made me mad was when I woke up this morning!!

Damn those dreams!!

When you woke up? You mean he's in your house!?

cacums · Post by **cacums** » Mon Apr 19, 2010 7:20 pm

I dreamt about meeting this special someone..

Kristev · Post by **Kristev** » Wed Apr 21, 2010 10:37 pm

Solitaire is such a depressing game. But three and a half years later, I'm still playing it.

assassin · Post by **assassin** » Thu Apr 22, 2010 6:10 am

Kristev wrote:Solitaire is such a depressing game. But three and a half years later, I'm still playing it.

Minesweeper is as well. There's a video on Youtube that tell's how to get an extra mode, and belive me, it's tough.

cacums · Post by **cacums** » Thu Apr 22, 2010 9:39 am

I don't think he was referring to the actual game of solitaire, i think he was using it as a metaphor.

fendue · Post by **fendue** » Fri Apr 23, 2010 8:34 pm

for what? is it what i think it is?...

Niteshade007 · Post by **Niteshade007** » Fri Apr 23, 2010 10:07 pm

Being alone. I suppose it could entail what you're thinking of, but I think more the notion of not having a significant other.

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